Tobys cabin

[Jamie D'vart]

"So... what's a submissive?"

[Toby]

"We'll there's two meanings that apply here.  The first is simple. It's a member of a pack relationship who is under protection of another.  So my children are classed as "submissives" and all packmembers are submissive to me as I protect them all. You are my submissive in that sense. There's also a sexual submissive someone who likes to be controlled and dominated in the bedroom. They get turned on by giving up control to their sexual partner"

[Jamie D'vart]

Jamie pinks. "Oh..."

[Toby]

I chuckle ruffling his hair "it's ok little one I'll look after you." I rumble teasingly

[Jamie D'vart]

"So you're like... one of those... bdsm guys?" and I guess so am I?

[Toby]

"And what do you know about all that little one?"

[Jamie D'vart]

"Isn't it... bad? Like.. people being abused?"

[Toby]

"No, see the difference is that in bdsm there's consent. What we did today. That wasn't bdsm that was just rough sex. If I were to tie you up and spank you and then consentually fuck you thats bdsm. If I did it with out consent that's abuse. Though bdsm isn't all ropes and spankings there's lots of things people are into. We have plenty of time to figure out exactly what you like. But it seams you like dirty talk, degradation, and soakings."

[Jamie D'vart]

"Is it... dangerous?"

[Toby]

"It can be depending on what you're doing,  it there's ways to do even the most risky things safely.  I happen to know Mala's wife is into being set on fire and there's way to do that without burning the skin or anything else."

[Jamie D'vart]

Jamie sits up, alarmed. "On Fire?!"

[Toby]

"Yah, mala poors pure ethical on her back then lights it before smothering it with a wet towel. It's quite safe and feels warm on the skin before going out. But that's not really my style. I prefer ropes, nothing around the neck though if I'm going to suspend someone. I also like yo wrestle, bite spank, there's a lot of things I like, but like I said we will take our time. Go slow, I'm not proposing that I light you on fire, this is only your second time with me and I doughy you have much experience with anyone else"

[Jamie D'vart]

"...I kissed Cindy Michealson once. That's how I realized I was gay."

[Toby]

I feel myself growing smug. "So I'm your first?" And only

[Jamie D'vart]

Jamie nods. "I wasn't... I didn't know how much it could hurt," he says quietly. "It was better this time."