Tobys cabin

[Jamie D'vart]

"Hi. Um, I think we need to talk, though."

[Toby]

I take a breath and nod. "Sure come on up to the study." I say leading the way.

[Jamie D'vart]

Jamie settles in, grabbing a little toy -- a magnet with steel balls stuck to it -- to fiddle with as he talks. "So um. I guess... I've never done this before, but I guess we need to decide... like... are we... steady? Or...?"

[Toby]

"Steady? What is this the 50's? You want my letterman's jacket and class ring?" I tease

[Jamie D'vart]

He blushes. "I mean... I know you see other people-- you're married and all -- but like... is there... you know... a limit or...?"

[Toby]

"This is about Dixon isn't it....." I say sheepishly "I'm not sure what you've heard but it's not like that.....it's.... Our relationship is..... it's complicated."

[Jamie D'vart]

"W-what? No, I mean, I was taking to Tova and Kira and-- Dixon?"

[Toby]

I pinch the bridge of my nose "ok let's start over since we both seem to be talking about different things. What exactly are you talking about"

[Jamie D'vart]

"it's just... everyone seems to want, um, you, and... I don't know what the rules are."

[Toby]

"What? That's certainly news to me." I blink a moment trying to think over all my pack interactions. "People usually ask for rules when their uncomfortable so what's making you uncomfortable?"

[Jamie D'vart]

"It's just... I don't know, everyone was talking about you and how you are in bed and how open everyone is about sex and the full moon is coming up and Kira said you had sex with Tova and I don't know if you plan to do that again or what..."

[Toby]

Understanding dawn finally "oh...OH. Ok so first off yes during full moons married cupple scan and do have sex in forum and while we try to keep it off the main paths it's not uncommon to see it. As for Tova...." I sigh. "First of all I haven't slept with her. Nor do I intend to. I have however been present during much of her and Dixon's meetings because someone has to make sure she doesn't hurt him. The thing is Dixon is a sexual submissive, and the two of us used to hook up. And now I'm teaching Tova how to do the things he likes... as far as what I'm like in bed that's just normal teen gossip I think, not sure never was a normal teen but if it bothers you tell them to nock it off."

[Jamie D'vart]

"..I can't just be rude, they'll not-- I mean, uh, they'll be upset."

[Toby]

"Telling someone that they're making you uncomfortable isn't rude and boundaries are nessicary for good relationships. For instance you wanted to talk about how open our relationship is.... Mala and I are legally married but we're just friends. I'm her green card and she's my child care. That's the relationship. Dixon and I are more complicated. We care about each other.there was a long time when we talked about mating as an alpha alpha cupple. I care about him, I can't cut him off. He's my second but if sleeping with him makes you uncomfortable I can stop that. If you need to be my only then ok I can do that....but I'd you want to be open, to date boys your own age, that's ok too."

[Jamie D'vart]

"I... I don't know any boys my age who are gay," he admits.